Ek Naukri and Ek Chokri

There was a time when I thought I would marry the girl I loved first. I could not even propose! [School] Then came, the girl I would propose first would marry, but rejected hopelessly! [College]Then again tried to another...but again got rejected![with one broken heart] Now it seems to me that loved by other(girls) is as good as or sometime even tougher than getting job because for job at least you have formal institutions, you have degrees where as for love nowhere you have learnt any techniques/skills. Where as in love, you will be tested thoroughly by their (girls) own method-e.g. level of boring you are, intelligent in catching woman signs (individual differences are there), woman language (tougher than Chinese!) and many more which I don’t know even any idea of the subjects and time when one will be tested-any moment anywhere you may be tested and if failed rejected forever, however few chances may be given but not sure. Like in job, a person having right qualification, attitude and professionalism are getting many jobs anytime anywhere they want. In the same manner a person qualified with women test also getting many girlfriends! And unemployed, unmarried and unloved are same-under qualified! The more gentle you are your chance of rejection is higher (if you are not handsome). It seems even if there comes an institute like ‘DIPLOMA IN WOMEN SCIENCE’, may work though you need right intelligence and aptitude and for that you need long effort. However, for failure and gentlemen ‘arrange marriage’ option is still open though provided you have financial stability preferably a govt. Job ! I think with the passage of time these particular options will not last or even if lasts it would be for divorcee, over age or sub standard!